Overthinking means going over the same thoughts again and again without getting anywhere: replaying a conversation, picturing the worst, or turning a small decision into a long debate. Everyone does it sometimes. It becomes a problem when it takes up a lot of your time, keeps you awake or stops you enjoying your day.
The 10 questions ask about the past month:
- replaying conversations and past mistakes;
- going round in circles on a problem, and finding small decisions hard;
- imagining the worst possible outcome;
- asking others for reassurance about the same worry;
- reading hidden meanings into short replies, or into messages that were seen but not answered;
- thoughts that keep you awake, or make it hard to enjoy what you are doing;
- how easily you can shift your attention when you notice you are going round in circles.
Worrying about the past or the future, fearing the worst and not being able to sleep are also common signs of anxiety1.